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How do i get through is anger and show him i love him?

Hello my boyfriend was given 52 weeks to live,it has been a major blow to all that know and love us.my problem is he is really upset with me because i couldnt take care of him and his daughter at my small apartment they were living with me before he was diagnosed. after he was realesd from the hospital he moved into his parents home they have major disfunction going on so anyways his family has totally turned on me they wont let me come visit him or call him and that hurts me so much because i love him.so i mailed him a nice best wishes card.a poem.and a letter, i didnt put my name on the envelope when my my called him he said he had got my letter and that made me feel good,just because i couldnt care for him i didnt want us to go are seperated ways weve only been toghether 4 months but i love him.do you think he will reach out to me ?and is there any way way i can get him to get over his anger towards me it seem like his whole family blames me for all of this .please pray for us all thank you for your comments.

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Answer #1

unfortunatley his mother is the one screening his calls,so i havent called over their since hes been their,and i didnt put my name on the mail because i was affraid of his mom not giving it to him,but i wrote in that letter my heart,and if he doesnt reply that will be it,i wont write or try to make contact any longer,i cant make him see that i want to be thei for him.i have to think about the pain im getting from his rejection.for the life of me how can a person tune you out so quick when yove done so much for him and his daughter?but i guess one day i will understand that type of bad behavoir.thank you for your comments

Answer #2

From your last post relating to this topic I’d have to advise against really seeing him unless he went to therapy of some sort. It sounds like he grew up in less than ideal circumstances and is repeating a cycle of abuse that can and will include you if you manage to regain contact. He won’t change just because you love him. To him YOU’RE the one with the problem. Personally, I’d advise you to move on and find someone new. He’s made it pretty plain that contact with you is a low priority in his world otherwise he wouldn’t be screening your calls and mail. It’s time to let go.

Answer #3

Don’t think of it thats he’s anger is directed towards you, he’s going to die and there’s nothing no one can do so I would presume he’s pretty pissed at life in general and you’re just one of the things he can’t do anything about it would make it worse if he really loves you and that he knows he’ll never be there for you. Move on girl you said what you wanted and leave it there. There’s nothing there for you but a whole lot of heartache. You WILL find someone else and be happy once again. When you do let us all know ;)

Good luck

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