how do I get over my fear of losing my virginity?

okay so im 17 almost 18. me and my boyfriend jake have been together for about 3 months and like he wants to and I want to but im afraid to lose it. I dont know what to expect when we do it and what to expect after its done and over with. I dont have anyone to talk to about this ethier. can anyone give me some good advice of how to understand this all and everything?

Answer #1

well if your sure you want to do it then talk to your parents if its too embarassing to talk about with parents then maybe a sibling and if you dont have either then just go over the risk and you need protection really think bout it cause this is a life chanching experience it all up to u!!

Answer #2

r you serious you have been dating this guy three months and you really thinking about having sex with him? and even losing your virginity to him,,really sweetie no.in my opinion eventhough you are older than me you sound very nieve so im going to tell you thats wrong on so many levels you will look like a huge bucket plus you should be that for marriage but even if you don’t wait until marriage wait on wht are thinking about doing and revaluate wht you won’t to remembered as and wht he will think about u,,as well as how you will think about urself afterwards…

hope I helped

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