How do I get over her.??

Ok so yesterday as I was at lunch in school, my girlfriends friend rang me and said that I was being dumped. At first it kind of felt like someone had just kicked my head in… But after a few hours it started to ease again… But then when I was on msn to her after she told me she still loves me and then I started to cry…

She said she loves me still but just doesnt like relationships, I still love her too. I cant figure out though how she wants to break up with me though if she loves me…also the day before I was talkin to her friend and sayin I was half thinkin of breakin up with her a bit because we never see each other and it just hurts too much, but then her friend made me realise, I dont just love her… Im in love with her:s I know im fifteen and all that stuff and everybody is going to say llike” your fifteen you dont know what love is” and all of that kind of thing..

But im not going to see her for another 3 months because now its the summer holidays and thats makin me sadder… And also the second she started talkin to me on msn yesterday she changed her pm to say “im happy now”

I dont know what to think or do?? I really dont know if I’m ever going to get over her because I’ve broken up with people before or been dumped, but this hurts more then all of them combined and im even cryin as I write this:s

Help please, how do I get over it??

Answer #1

im kinda in the flipped situation.. a friend broke up with my boyfriend for me without my permission a YEAR ago.when she broke up with him for me, it felt as though he had broken up with me.. just because he was like oh okay! needless to say me and that girl arent friends anymore. I still have extremely strong feelings for him and hes not making me feel any better about it. he will look at me whenever I see him and stop me and hug me and say that he loves me and then keeps walking. like nothing happened! I’ve had to distract myself with other guys(ik thats probably not the best thing to do) but I dated a guy for a day just to keep my mind off of it. maybe time will help you but certainly dont date for the hell of it.. it really doesnt help. ik how you feel and im so sorry;hope this helps you out :)

Answer #2

thanks for the help, I have tried distracting myself from her, but then I just cant stop thinking of her, and I cant get with anyone else because nobody else likes me

thanks for the help though anyway, much appreciated:)

Answer #3

Make her jelouse by getting with another girl she will then notice how special you realy are to her and she will come back to you then you dump the other girl nice and easy then get back with her if she really even loves you

Answer #4

it really isnt a quick way to get over this girl, time is going to have to heal your broken heart.Why dont you try distracting yourself that way your mind doesnt remined you of this girl.

xxxhope I helpxxx

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