How do I get my parents to let me go somewhere?

My BFF just called and said that her dad was taking her to a campground tomorrow and I could come. She also said that I needed a swimsuit cause there is a lake we can swim in. Unfortunately, I don’t have a swimsuit at the moment. So, I asked my mom if we could go out to get a swimsuit today, and she said that we were already out shopping enough today and she didn’t want to go out again even though she had to go take my bro to his piano lesson. I asked her why she couldn’t just get me a swimsuit when she took my bro out and she said because they don’t sell swimsuits close to there. Since the trip is tomorrow, I don’t have a swimsuit, and there is a target pretty close to the piano lesson place, I started saying “Please!”. Then, my mom said that I was getting really annoying and she said that I can’t go tomorrow. What do I do to get her to let me go? Soon!

Answer #1

just beg them and they will say yes I do that all the time and sometimes I help my mom around the house and later I ask her if I can go out and she would say yes because I helped her

Answer #2

how do I get my parents to let me go to my friend’s house

Answer #3

hello im trying to go to my moms house to see my brother play his pokemon heart gold but my dad wont let me could you help me get to my moms house

Answer #4

okay…this is my experties…okay take for instance you want to go 2 a party..but your parents don’t think you can handel it…you disagree…start out with cleaning the house..but say it was for nothing..they will catch on..lol…when you bring it up next time…keep your chin up..look confident…mature..focuse…don’t forget 2 breath..lol start out with eye contact..turn off all noise..tv, radio, etc. then while she or he is looking at you take a quick glance around at the clean house..:) the smile dimly :) okay…this part is really important.. “mommmy look I know I’m your little girl but I’m growing uo and if you don’t trust me..I might never be able to grow outta my shell and release my personally socially…I’m not gonna say heyy everybodies gonna be there…becuse there not and thats a lame excuse…I can take care of myself..and I’ll call you every hour..and take pictures for you. :) please understand my confidence in the situation..I appreciate your time…wait for it…like5 second pausle …yes or no? contunie smiling…and when you recive the time aching answer..stand up..smile and say thank you fror you decesion..I understand and support you fully…I LOVE you!!!

and thats how it’s done…lol and same works with boy & mom, boy & dad, and daughter and dad..lol…so if this doesn’t work..plzz comment me back
:) xoxoxoxox Alexie Nicole

Answer #5

beg them until you cannot beg no more

Answer #6

shut up, I have my own problems

Answer #7

wow your a bit*ch

Answer #8

srry wasnt me, cousin :)

Answer #9

Apologize you bugging her too much about the swimsuit, ‘I was wrong’ and ask ‘may I please go anyway to have a good time with my friend’ ?

Take care !!

Answer #10

As a mother, myself, I can relate to your mother’s reaction … one thing that drives me completely batty and never results in a positive manner with my kids is when they beg and hassle. If you really want to show your maturity, come up with a solution that won’t cause your mother any added stress … for example, if you knew there was a store selling swimsuits near your brother’s class, it would have been more realistic to ask her if you can go with her and get the swimsuit while she’s with your brother. Sometimes, all you need is compromise.

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