how do I get my girl to be comfortable with touching me?

okay, so me and my girl have been dating for seven months, we are both catholic and were originally going to wait till marriage for everything, that didnt last long. I have fingered her a couple times. I dont want to eat her out until she gets comfortable touching me down there and stuff. but, I am not going to push it, I dont want to seem like a horny scumbag who is making her do something she does want to do. but, she is inexperienced, how do I let her know that I would like her to do that, but be respectful at the same time? HELP!!!

Answer #1

All you can do is communicate with her and give her time to be comfortable. It will happen in time. The two of you just started doing “sexual” things and she is obviously scared of doing something wrong or looking stupid. Just reassure her that she will be great and that you will help her learn what to do.

Answer #2

Grasp her hands, slowly guide her in , how you like to touch yourself.

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