How do I get my boyfriend's to stop?

Older guys (guys I date) touching me, when im only 13 years of age. I like the attention.

Answer #1

you need to be with just one guy whos closer to your age all these older guys can be charged with phedophillia and rape if you do anything sexual with them (wether you agreed to it doesnt matter, as its still classses as rape because your still a child) you can also easily be taken advantage of ( and possibly raped) because of the age difference as you have to wonder why an older adult male wants to be with a 13 year old kid be smart and safe, be with someone yor own age and stop messsing around with lots of older guys who can easily take advantage of you

Answer #2

I was like you, I wasn’t used to male attention and it all seemed to come at once and even though I knew the boys I were talking to were bad news I kept encouraging the attention by flirting as it made me feel appreciated. It eventually lead to me getting raped and now I can’t stand any attention from guys, I hate them looking at me. Be careful, you shouldn’t be being touched so young, I know its is nice to feel wanted and pretty but trust me it is not worth someday something will happen which you will not be able to take back and you may regret it for the rest of your life. I know it seems dramatic but it is not worth the risk with situations like this. Clearly you are attractive as these guys want you, but wait for someone who likes you so much for who you are he doesn’t care if he can touch you or not before you let them :)

Answer #3

I know how you feel about the attention and I know its a really nice feeling to be wanted especially by guys a bit older than you. However it depends on how old these guys are because if they are much older it is a bit weird going out with a young teenager. You need to tell them straight up that you like being with them but you’re not comfortable with them touching you so much. It may be hard to say but you have to make sure you tell them. You may want to try going out with guys closer to your age so that there’s less pressure. I have friend who is 14 and she’s going out with an 18 year old which makes her feel pressure to live up to the 17&18 year old girls he hangs out with so he’ll keep her. Just be careful that doesn’t happen to you, also don’t let them take advantage of you. Hope it goes well =] x

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