How do I get a guy to confess?

You confront him. This isn’t going to solve itself on its own. Do you live with/near each other? It sounds almost like you live in two entirely different places. If you don’t then it seems pretty ridiculous that you messaged him rather then spoke to him about it.

A relationship cannot be built on lies… not to mention lies as big as the ones he’s telling. As hard as it is, you need to let it go and find someone better (which won’t be very hard) :)

Since this is an online relationship, and you’ve already tried confronting him, best to just let it go, and chock it up to experience. There’s a ton of liars on dating/social sites…people who totally reinvent themselves once online. He’s one of them, and he’s not going to change.

Don’t waste you time on the likes of him.

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Well, you know this a tricky one and I feel for you. You should realise for yourself that he is not the only man in this world. It’s better to look around yourself and I’m sure you will notice quite a lot of nice, good guys around you. But all in all if you are infatuated with him you should be more persistant in your doings. Try to date with him in the flesh and open your feelings, because the best way of communication is in the real life. Don’t be afraid of being reciprocated, because it’s better to have tried and fail, than never to have done at all.