how do I fing alone time w my boyfriend?

I have no time for it to be just me and him..because everytime I am at his house his little brother and sister are around and my lil bro is there…and we cant just start making out in front of an 8 year old and the older kids dont know we’re going out and we have to keep it a secret..so how do I find time to be w just him?

Answer #1

Why do you have to keep it a secret? Keeping secrets like that, never work. It’s going to come out anyways, and it’s going to look worse if you’ve been lieing to them about it this whole time.

As for finding alone time - your really young. You reall dont need alone time with a boy at that age.

Answer #2

lol oh yea I forgot :)

no not forever..but definatley a couple years..

Answer #3

lol oh yea I forgot :)

no not forever..but definatley a couple years..

Answer #4

lol oh yea I forgot :)

no not forever..but definatley a couple years..

Answer #5

Your age is on your profile doll.

Anyways - still keeping a secret is bad. Not only will they find out, but when he does it going to be ten times worse. Do you serioulsy think you can date this boy forever and never have his father find out?

Answer #6

its a secret because his dad is insane and he hates my family…and how do you know how old I am?

Answer #7

I am 13 and there is this gu im dateing, I love him. hes reallly great but im not supposed to be with a guy. him and I have only kissed, and thats fine. him and I just want to be alone for a while so we can just be together, but we cantfigure it out. I want to be able to just talk and stuff. I thought about the movies but I dont want to be rude and tyalk during a movie. what can we do??? if you have ideas e-mail me at ashleeyomg2009@yahoo.com!!! thanxxx:))

Answer #8

I agree with you. I mean, with the age thing, butterflygirl 33. I mean that would make you almost 18 (same here :)). so yeah. I actually have the exact same problem me and my boyfriend each have two younger siblings and we never get alone time. and of course what I’m about to suggest is sneaky and underhanded ;) but if it’s what you gotta do.

-if he/you can drive, tell your parents you’re going to the movies and just go on a picnic/park/etc. (me and my boyfriend are super nature-like, but just adjust it to your personalities, like even hanging out in your car). -if that doesn’t work then go to a mutual thing (more than you guys; like a mutual friends party) and either sneak off or leave a little early. -or there’s always the option of pretending to ‘study’ and asking your little siblings to leave. and then if they refuse (usual obnoxiousness with mine), then pay them hard cash and they should leave. :) but of course make it known that you are really ‘studying’ or the siblings will have peaked interests and spy on you.

hope this helped! these are a few things me and my boyfriend do to get more alone time. :)

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