How do I ask the girl I like if she's bi sexual and im bi sexual?

im not planning to have sex til im married but what do I do still confused

n yo soo what if she is 13 she can make her own choices

well just take it easy and dont push her to hard to get her to tell you if she liles guys or girls but inthe mean time show her a good time and try to play around with her a bit

mmm hm im a dude so I dont know just like ask if she has a boy friend or girl friend hmmm then again that wont work hmmm lol mmm ask so you like can try and like ask if she likes boys or girls or both =:)

just cause she pinched your but doesn’t mean shes bi…and your 13 soo try adn take it easy…sexually… you have tons of time to get freaky…

wrong answer spacemonkey,

but I think what you should do is, ask her kindly - don’t be too forward about it, or you may scare her off and lose the friendship, so just take it easy, and try out a discrete move instead of going in for a big kiss

why is spacemonkey wrong? she can make her choices and mistakes, and choose which was worth it and what was a mistake. sometimes personal experience is the only way we learn =) definitely be discreet. or come out of the closet to her first and if she accepts you, wait awhile because if she likes you too she will think about that a lot more.

well jus ask her in a jokeingly way and see what she says… good luck

that is true though… many girls now do that sort of thing so like i said jokeinly ask her the next time she pinches ur butt and see what she says,, say something like” do u enjoy touching my butt?” or jus say “hey i kno you like me and all but you know if ur gonna continue to touch my butt were gonna have to get together) (; hope it helps…. i was in ur situation to but my friend helped me out.. he found out if the girl i liked was bi for me and as of today we’ve been together for 7 months<3 so u can try that too(: good luck