How do I ask him to prom without being weird?

Hey everyone! I REALLY like this guy and I think he likes me to because he shows all the signs. But were not dating and one time in class we were doing work this one girl wanted to see his paper she was like let ya girl see it first he was like shes not my girl. And then she asked him were we gonna go to prom he was like shes not my girlfriend and she was like friends can go together he didnt say nothing, or at least I didnt hear him. The other day we were salsa dancing and his hands were sooo sweaty! And people like asked him were we dating and stuff he was like no were not. Even the teachers think we are. We did date once. Does it mean he wants to date me again!? Hes been to prom 3 times, and said it was lame. How can I talk him into going with me without being weird? How can I bring up the subject? I was gonna be like im so excited I get to go look at dresses this weekend. Would that be the perfect way? I mean hes always starring at me and smiling and touching me hugging me, hitting mein a fun way cause I hit him first but he gets mad about it He calls me annoying. Which im really not. How can I get him into me? Should I not talk about Danny Gokey around him? I have a HUGE dangerous obsession with Danny. HELP!!!

Answer #1

Well personally, if the girl I liked asked me to prom I’d be thrilled. I see where he’s comin from because I’m pretty shy. Say a really old inside joke and if he laughs, laugh with him. If he doesn’t make up some ex use like you were just thinking about random old memories. This works best if he laughs but after the joke say something like,”bey, you know that prom thing’s comin up, why don’t we go together.” if he looks reluctant, add,”just as friends, you know.” this will help his nerves a little bit.

Answer #2

dont talk about whoever danny gokey is in front of him though to find out if he still likes you or not your going to have to ask him because we dont know what he wants, only he does just casullay ask him about it soemthing like “‘ hey you know how prom is comming up soon, I was wondering if youd like to go woith me if you dont alreday have a partner”‘

Answer #3

LOL well I think he does really like you so just bring up about the prom casually in a conversation and say you would like to go with him. Don’t act too eager about it though, be calm when you talk about it with him. And if he’s not too sure about it then try to convince him and give him different reasons that you guys would have a good time and hopefully he’ll say yes. Good luck!

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