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How come relationships are always good in the beginning?

Everytime I meet a guy I always seem to fall in love with the first impression. Then years go by and I start to see I really made a mistake. Should I lower my standards? Or just be single for awhile.

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:D I think it’s called chemistry, the spark that gets you intrigued to get closer to this guy and say “hey this guys interesting!” I think your just realizing that they aren’t perfect, no one is. But don’t lower your standards, I think you just have to realize that relationships are always going to be butterflies and rainbows. But who knows maybe you do realize that. Relationships are work, even after the love is gone; it’s about trying to fall in love with them over and over! But I don’t really understand what you mean by mistake… It could be that you’ve realized your mistake because they are just not that perfect fit for you as well. I hope I helped! Good Luck!

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