How can I tell my friend that she's a poser?

This girl jacklyn, is my “best friend” but leaning to friend because she’s A POSER! My BFF Linnea hinted her. & She is also COPYING ME! heres a true example… I LOVE tokidoki. 2 months ago she had NO idea what the heck that was, & I liked it a lot. Then this week, she starts saying she loves it! & Linnea stepped in saying “Why do you copy alyssa?” & She also copied me during CHEERLEADING. Yeah she’s HORRIBLE. So today Linnea told me she was sick of Jacklyn & so was I. So she went up to her and said “You should be yourself and STOP copying alyssa” She said ok I wont do cheerleading. but I have loved tokidoki forever. YEAH RIGHT. 2 MONTHS AGO YOU DIDNT KNOW OR CARE FOR IT. Linnea and me wont to tell her but we dont know how…

Answer #1

if she likes it, she likes it. I doubt your the only one in this world who likes Tokiwhatever and cheerleads. Who made quit and made you leader of the world? :S Leave her alone.

Answer #2

How should you tell your friend that you care way too much about what she does, who she likes, and what she says? That’s a tough one…

Honestly, you need to friggin’ chill and mind your own bloody business. Who cares what she likes? Who cares who liked what/who first? If it annoys you so much, don’t hang around her.

Answer #3

your like 13-14 I assume she is too what little teenager hasnt been a poser at some point in time? almost all of teens will follow a trend or sterotype or like something that someone else does because they think its cool shes just trying to fit in a bit and finding things she likes sure next year she probably wont like it and move onto something else but thats what kids do im sure youve done the same thing and its not like whoever you learned about tokidoki and cheerleading from was pissed because THEY knew about if for longer and then all of a sudden you love it now you need to remember that its something that other people can like too, not just you they say immitation is the most sincere form of flattery so you could just take it as a compliment that she likes your intrests and thinks there “‘cool”‘ otherwise if its bothering you that much explain to her why you dont like what shes doing, and what shes doing that you dont like or as mikeh said, dont hang around her

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