How can I tell if hes using me ?

there’s some boy that I have grown up with all my life as his parents and my parents are close friends and we whent to the same school. I never thought of him in anyother way than a friend untill the last two years, hes 18 and am 16 we have kissed loads of times and we use to be with each other but now everytime he has a girlfriend he always cheats on them with me, he never gets anything of me apart from a song but people say hes only with me to get things from me but hes never asked me for things like that. Now hes with another girlfriend and when shes not around at our friend and family partys he flirts with me and kisses but when she is there he will never look at me not evan talk to me. is he using me ?

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Answer #1

yup

Answer #2

YES…HE IS PLAYING WITH you BECAUSE you LET HIM AND I AGREE WITH CHICA4 &SEX and SWEET21…

Answer #3

yes…if he cared a lot about you he would be with you…put him in his place stand up for yourself because if you dont you could get really hurt…hope this helps

Answer #4

I can not even explain how much he is using you hun

Answer #5

No offense…you opened that door by being that girl for him regardless of his relationship status. He doesn’t look at you when she’s around because he doesn’t want her to have the slightest idea that he is attracted to you or that you two have history. So he just pretends it doesn’t happen…and he doesn’t want you near her to befriend her to eventually spill the beans about what happens when she isn’t around. Yes he is using you though…next time he wants to hook up or kiss you should be a smartass and be like “Where is so and so” and don’t give it to him this time…if he wanted to be with you like that he would be…he is just getting his cake and eating it too.

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