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How can I not be to rough?

My girlfriend is very fragile and im not at all. I love her to death and so much more but im to rough with her. Like im realy dominant and when ever we make out like I hold her realy tight or “push” her against a wall and make out with her. She sais im not hurting her but I no she is only saying that to be nice.how can I learn to be soft before I end up realy hurting her?

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Answer #1

Some girls like it when you are a little rough sometimes. Me personally, I like it when my husband gets a little rough. Our relationship is kinda like y’alls, he is rough and I am fragile. Just tell her to let you know when you are getting too rough and you have to not take offense by it. He gets really rushed and that is a big part of why he is so rough. When you are wanting to be gentle, just slow down and think about what you are doing before you do it. You have to keep in mind that it is her you are with, and not your guy friends. You actually have to use some control around her. Probably a lot more than you ever have to any other time. Just get her to tell you when you hurt her, so you can slack up and not be hurting her.

Answer #2

that was really sweet. but maybe she might actually like the fact that your aggresive. some girls find that really hot. I think you should just be gentle

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