How can I make myself cum ?

Okay me and my biyfried have been having sex for quite a while now. and he has not made me cum yet but he really wants me to but he does not know how, can you helpp ??

Answer #1

look it doesnt matter how old you are ofcourse your gonna cumm..if hes bomb tell him not to be ruff..to take it easy and lick you slowly..tell him to focus on your clit..and he has to have patience cause your not gonna cum all quick unless your really turned on..tell him to try sucking gently..and tell him when your clit starts getting hard that that means your so close..Good Luck

Answer #2

lol…let him eat your pussy… Make sure he do it well…or you kan play with your self and cum that way… Or have sex when the mood is right and ride em till you feel urself gettn really really weak… that my friend is when you know you have cum…It feel so Good…

Answer #3

Two ways I find works:

Oral - As he is massaging the clit and and the hood, he needs to insert his finger upwards and back towards himself to try and find the G-spot. Once you are almost there, he should start lightly sucking at the clit while still massaging the G-spot with his finger. I have never had any problems, get very drenched, and no complaints.

Penetration - He should try and just use his tip back and forth while inserting all the way every now and then. When you are almost there he should insert fully and as hard as possible as to stimulate the clit with his vein as he is pounding into you. Again, works majority of the time.

Good luck.

Answer #4

He hasn’t worked you up yet so that’s the reason why…

I guess you sort of headed off straight to the sex part without first putting on the mood. Quickie sex really gets boring and orgasm-less when done often.

Let him get a place that’ll set the mood - one with dim pink lights and scented candles around perhaps?

Bathe together - doing mutual masturbation, and then him licking you while bathing…

Having him use massage oil on you, and licking down on you again.

Wear blindfolds and feel each other around…

Then the rest follows…

What I said ain’t a hard rule for that - just a rough guide.

Be creative though - and wear protection to keep yourselves from being worried about “complications”. Worrying during sex can be a factor (talk about puns - say “factor” emphasizing the first syllable hehehehe).

Hope I helped…

(One thing - hint all these discreetly. Let him believe that this was his idea - so that you won’t tread on possible male ego issues…)

Answer #5

I want to no how to cum???

Answer #6

WEELL I THINK THAT WHEN YOUR BODY GETS READY TO IT WILL your STILL DEVELOPING SO YEA

Answer #7

yeh my boyfriend does that.. I have an orgasm but I don’t cum ?? its weirdd x

Answer #8

I’ve tried…my boyfriend has tried to make me aswell, and I just dont know how to I guess. is there something wrong with me? I heard the when you feel like you have to be you should push out and I tried that but it didnt work… :(

Answer #9

try watching porn or a vibrater always helps

Answer #10

This may sound crazy but most girls dont get orgasms from intercourse.. unless the guy is absolutly amazing which lets face it is unusual… lol.. sometimes the only way to get an orgasm is by playing with your clit during sex .. :)

Xo

Answer #11

How do you cum all by yourself???

Answer #12

OMG I cummed!!!

Answer #13

o thanks I just watched some porn and saw how thanks

Answer #14

When you get an orgasm you cum .. You probably just dont squirt thats all ..

Xo

Answer #15

Okayy taah x

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