How can I know for sure my mom won't hit me again?

The only thing you can be sure of is that her behavior sober is totally different than her behavior drunk…When she’s drunk make yourself scarce, because drunk people are great at ‘good intentions’, but rarely stick to them…as my mama used to say: The road to hell is paved with good intentions.

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I think a meeting would be great, except for the fact that my boyfriend can’t stand my parents now, and refuses to have absolutely anything to do with them. He has always been like that. He’s never liked being around or talking to them. This whole incident definately amplified his resentment for them though. Now he actually has a reason to hate them. My parents blame the whole entire thing on him as well, although he had nothing to do with it! Ugh. I just am so confused.

If it has only happend 1 time in your life then it may be isolated incident. I think your parents may have had some rage towards your boyfriend staying with you and it came out that night. Be watchful, if they get drunk again be on alert.

Get a lock for your bedroom door. It is easy to install a new door knob that has the lock on it, instructions are easy to follow and all you need is a screwdriver. If they come back drunk lock your door.

I think you should have a meeting with all of the people involved. Go out to dinner or do it somewhere in public where people are around and your family won’t have the opportunity to yell or fight.

Let everybody tell their side of the story and apologize when necessary. When everybody is finished, ask if your boyfriend can come back to live with you. Make sure your boyfriend is present at this meeting, and before you go, tell him not to speak unless he is spoken to. He didn’t do anything wrong, so he shouldn’t be the centre of attention.

When it is all over, just forgive everybody. It’s the easiest way to get this all over with. If your mother ever does this again, then you need to call child services. An accident is fine, but when this behavior is recurring, it can destroy families.

I think you should not let your boyfriend in your house anymore because he may get stuffed up about the things if they happen again and it may be bad for your relationship. You seem to be very quite girl, I think you should be strict on certain things and avoid doing any mistakes so your parents do not have any chance to scold you you know what I mean..just be good and not afraid of drunk people..if you are right you can do whatever you want without hesitating. That’s all I can say for now.

There are so many things wrong with this question that I don’t know where to start.

You can never be sure she won’t because when your drunk you don’t think straight. You could try to see if it happens again, i know it is risky. maybe negotiate with her tell her ‘it’s her last chance if she ever does it again you will never ever forgive her’ maybe that would get her thinking about what she has done! And tell them to apoligize about the way they treated your boyfriend !