How can I get over him?

I’m going to say this, and you’re probably going to think I’m rude, or cold, or callous, or… something. But read it, and hear me out, and sleep on it.

You don’t love him. Not the type of feelings you have for someone which last a lifetime. You’re certainly old enough to have those feelings. I’m not one to judge people based upon age, so you’re safe there. But love, dedication, commitment… all of those are bidirectionally involved. Both parties have to open up vulnerabilities to one another, and have to achieve a level of communication with one another which is otherwise unreachable in order for your feelings to be of that nature.

You don’t need to jump to another guy. What’s important for you, at this particular moment in time, is to find a way to be happy with yourself, and by yourself. You’re fixated on him, probably because you feel incomplete without him… but you won’t feel complete with him.