How can I break up with my girlfriend in the least painful way?

we’ve been dating for a few months now, and even in the beginning, I didn’t really like her, but I couldn’t say no. I’m too nice of a person, and now, I realize, its a LOVE LESS relationship. well, at least for me it is. I wish it was as easy as saying “goodbye” but its not. well, it kind of is, but I just can’t muster up that… Strength? or whatever you would call it… but yes please, I need to find a easy way to break up with that won’t hurt her. PLEASE HELP! :)

Answer #1

you’re messed up if you think thats nice to go out with someone but not like them. You were leading her on, because when you didnt like her that much, she was getting to know you more and liking you more. So good luck not hurting her.

Dont say you like her. That will confuse her and make her sad and upset. ‘Just say, I think this relationship isnt working out. To me we arnt getting anywhere. We would be better off with other people. Dont hate me, please?’ you GOT TO ASK THE QUESTION AT THE END. I mean, you need her to know she is in control of that whole friend part. And you cant change it all of a sudden. That you cant take control and hurt her like that.

I dislike people like you…gosh. When will you people ever learn GOING OUT WITH SOMEONE WHEN YOU DONT LIKE THEM AND YOU ARE TRYING 2 B NICE DOESNT WORK & YOU ARE HURTING THEM MORE THAN SAYING NO IN THE 1ST PLACE!

Answer #2

anyway that you break up wit a girl will hurt her.. dats da first thing .. second of all everythin that you just said der tell her that.. just tell her how you felt and how you fell noe if she realy loves you she will understand.

Answer #3

you have to tell her, I just wanna be friends! I like u, but I just don’t wanna be in a relationship

Answer #4

1st off u shouldve been honest with her in the beginning and told her how you felt.. but anyway u break up with her is going to hurt her..

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