How can I become the person I want to be?

I want to be tan and muscular and cool and kind and funny and popular and smart and mature and gorgeous and fast and talented and patient and calm and relaxed and have a figure and be taller (but there’s nothing I can do about those-curse my genetics lol :P) and have a lot of money that I’ve earned myself and well-dressed and have a cool room. Most importantly I want to be the same person around everyone I know- no lying, backstabbing, and secret keeping. This is a long list and I want to know ways to acheive all of these goals. Help, please?

Answer #1

You want all those things out of jealousy and bitterness because you see other people with those things. That guy who is football quarter back with a ripped tan body has just as many problems as you do and is quite a bit less happy then may appear. The best trait you listed was being the same all around person to everyone. If you trying to be attractive to get girls or guys depending on your gender (guessing your a guy) then most of the traits you listed dont matter, the one thing that matters is confidence, confidence in who you are and knowing that your an awesome person and if you are putting off the attitude that any girl would be lucky to be your girlfriend I guarentee thegirls will come running, remember confidence through body language and actions but not cocky. If you want good hygene brush you damn teeth and shower, if you want to be muscular then work out, if you want money then work hard for it. This is pretty basic stuff.

Answer #2

dude, I am a chick, yes. :P Weird that I want a tan and muscles, I know. I kind of want it out of jealousy, because I feel like if I look amazing and capable it will be and it’ll all be okay; but also, I’m just trying out new images for myself, you know?

Answer #3

hey fender, its a chick! wow. but for a good bodywork out during the summer mabye out side to get tan too so then you can make a big boom when you go back to school, and the money you earned, splurge and buy some clothes and or popularity dont be afriand to dance or say somthing funny or do somthing and be nice to everyone and try ro ralk to everyone and dont be afraid “popular girls” are people who arent afraid to be themselfs and say what they want and wear what the wanna wear and do stuff and the calm and relaxed stuff try yoga or zen therapy stuff :) hope I helpeddd

Answer #4

What’s the Jersey Shore?

Answer #5

It’s honestly not that hard to do some of the things you mentioned. For a tan, just go out in the sun during the summer time or get a spray tan. For being muscular, start working out more and go to the gym if you have the chance. Working out more would also give you a good figure. Have good hygiene and take care of yourself. Be friendly to the people you meet and have confidence in yourself. And the money you have, spend it on stuff for your room if you want or get some new clothes. Being popular honestly isn’t all that important. Just be cool and be yourself and be nice to people. That’ll sure bring you a lot of friends. Write down a list of these goals too and think of other different ways you can achieve them and you’ll get it. Hope this helped at all!

Answer #6

Watch the Jersey Shore ;)

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