How are you going to raise your child(ren)?

Dear xiigzag,

As I do not have any Childern of my own I can not 100% honestly tell you how I am going to raise then since I have yet to do it I will however tell you how I Plann on raising them.

As best as I can…for a good part of my life I have been determind to give them a compleatly life then I was given and to rasie them different how I was in hopes that they wouldn’t have an as messed up life…I didn’t want to mess them up really well then it hit me we are all human and guess what we all mess up from time to time.. I will never be the perfect parent and it is my hopes that they wont be as messed up as was…I’ll mostly mess them up a little I think every one does but they wont be as much.

I will teach them about what I value the most in life.. Family ( even when they are messed up) HONESTY, love, compassion for the suffering, LOVE, honor of life, kindness, GOD, Honor, Wisdom, Standing your ground on what you believe.. and being true to your Self.

I will teacj them about what I believe and the Bible but I Will nebver force it down their throats they will not be forced to Church or to read the bible if they choose the path that I have then I will Praise God and if they Don’t I will praise God for their lives as a gift to me( the bible says childern are a gift from God)..they will very well know what I believe though.

I will teach them to Honor their elders, and be honest and respectful in all things to strive to do you best at everything ( no point in doing some thing if you don’t do you best at it after all) to be respectful to others as well as the world around you.

That we are fearfully and wonderfully made, and created in the image of God ( our Soul and spirit) they will know that no one is like some one else and every one is unique.

I will tach them about war and our history and what it has doen but to hate it…and to see what it brings.

they wont be rascis …but no that we are all gods childern and our skin and cluture does not defien us.

they will know of their Hawaiian, Philipino and Indian heritage and what ever background their fatehr coems form, but what they do with it is their choice..where they find their peace and roots with it is up to them..they will no they come God either way.

They are going to be home schooled that way they can leanr more in depth and at a better pace.

rules and what not depends on the type of child I get…their personality and what not but they will have a pretty easy going life style I am by no means a strict person after all.

Plus as long as there is trust I don’t see letting them have fun with friends and what not trust and it needs to be safe.

Food wise I have a really healthy diet and so they will be use to that I am sure…they will have to get use to it either way..I will not make them eat food that don’t llike though..not much of a point in that.

the family unit they will leanr is every important. I am hoping to be fair, just, loving suportive, stable, a good example, and pacient.. any thing else you want me to elaborate on?