How to date?

I’ve been in your shoes before back when I was 16 :) let’s see if I can help.

Believe it or not, I stll consider myself the shy type. I really never do approach women as most men do. However, I always tend to land the hottest girls out there.

For women, looks are not necessarily at the top of the list, (like it is for us, lol) They actually look at the qualities in a guy too. Can you believe that? (haha/ j/k ladies…)

May sound cliche, but just be yourself. Now lemme give you some steps.. You see a girl that you like and want to ask out, but that shyness comes on… Here’s what you do. Lower the bar, Instead of going straight to the asking her out part, just introduce yourself and spark a little mini- conversation. Doesn’t have to be much, just like , hi, how are ya? blah blah… just small talk. You see girls, especially the cute ones, get approach so many times a day it’s ridiculous to them. So you might actually be that 20th person and they’ll be like no just because of that… So I wouldn’t really sweat a “NO”. But just get to know a little about her and just start sort of a friendship. Now if you feel up to it after conversing you could end with something like, hey I got to run, but maybe we can finish this convo over lunch or insert whatever there, even get her number or something. Most importantly, even if you’re scared out of your socks, you must appear to be calm and collected. Be confident, that will be your best quality to a girl.. they like confidence. She’ll be like, he doesn’t look athletic, but he sure is confident in who he is! ‘;)

oh and as for that thought of well what if they say no… don’t even think about that… Instead, think what if they say yes… What I’ve come to realize is that It may be that I was actually the girl would say yes and not no… If you get a no, oh well so what, at least you know you asked and are sure, and can feel good that you had the guts to ask…

hope this helps… -Love Doctor