My boyfriend's best friend is always flirting with him

Uhmmm so I have this boyfriend…I love him SO very much and I wouldnt want anything to get in our way. But he has these two best friends, both girls. The one I dont care about b/c she has a boyfriend and shes a very nice girl who wouldnt backstab me ever. But the other one worries me…she always flirts with him and people come up to me and tell me that they always hangout in the hallways. I feel kind of left out. Shes also kind of my friend also. And after the school year they are going to see each other at band in the summer AND they live down the street from each other. But they dont really hang out at each others houses.I really feel like shes gettying in the way shes always trying to be the center of attention… How can I talk to her without her getting defensive and saying something to my boyfriend like “oh she doesnt want us hanging out anymore!!! what the f*ck?!”

Answer #1

wow dont listen to deepthroatgirl look at her name and ask yourself if you want advice from someone who names themselves after something like that.

so this is what might be going on. your female friend who is single is not happy with her life or she wouldn’t be doing soemthing like this. she really isn’t your friend either. if she was she wouldn’t be overstepping her boundaries into what is acceptable and what is not with someone you are romantically involved with. if your so worried about it why don’t you first talk to your b/f and let him know that A) you do trust him but B) she makes you feel uncomfortable because you think she might try something with him. but whatever you do don’t get upset at him at what he says because frankly, guys are kind of stupid.

she is flirting because some people are just like that and can’t let other people be happy because they themselves are not happy in their lives. it will start off as harmless flirting. then, if she is not getting what she wants it will go from harmless flirting to a passing touch. and so on. I’m not trying t get you jealous but this is how people really are. if you and your b/f have an open and honest relationship with each other then you will be able to talk this out without causing problems between you two.

after you talk to your b/f address the situation with your friend. ask her that her flirting with him makes you feel uncomfortable and then ask her to stop. see what her response is then see how she acts towards him when she doesn’t think that you are around. this will show you if she is a true friend to you or if she is just trying to make you miserable so she can be miserable with someone as well.

but, you should address this if it makes you very uncomfortable. if you really do care about this guy and he really does care about you then everything will work out for you two. but if not, it is better to know now and move on with your life because he wasn’t the guy for you. and she isn’t really your friend.

Answer #2

Different sex best friends are always flirting. Accept it and get into the play. You may form a nice three-mates company.

Answer #3

^^^Thank you for the above answer^^^ that helps a lot :D

Answer #4

but dont get too agressive or you’ll make yurself look like a weirdo, lol

Answer #5

WELL GIRL DON’T TALK TO HER ALL YOU GOT TO DO IS STEP UPP YOUR GAME AND MAKE YOUR SELF WORTH HAVING THEN THAT OTHER GIRL!

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