Help understanding this women?

She is my neighbor and he is a good friend of my wife. She is from Spain, divorced, and she has two kids. We became friends and help each other in day to day things. I had to go to Spain for a business trip and she was there on vacation visiting family. I asked her if she can show me the city because I had only one day available to tour the city. She was available and she took me to several places and we had a very good time. By the end of the day I felt like I wanted to stay with her and hang around for as long as I could. I felt guilty of how I felt because I’m married and my intention was not to look for somebody else. I love my wife. I did not like the way how I was feeling.

I called her that night and I explained to her that I felt weird because I was feeling like I wanted to expend more time with her. I mentioned that I was not looking for anything but that I think I had like a mini crash on her. I said something like let’s try to avoid circumstances that can cause any confusion on me because I was not looking for anything. She said she was sorry, that she loves being my friend and my wife friend and that I was a little bit confuse.

Later, that night she sent me a text message that said: “ I’m sorry about the way you felt earlier today. I love having you and your wife as my friend and I won’t do anything to jeopardize that. I had fun hanging out with you today”

I don’t want trouble, I love my wife. “Is she telling me in her text message that she likes me but she respects my marriage and she won’t do anything because of that”

We haven’t spoken in three weeks because she is still in Spain.

What you people think she was trying to say in her text message? That was confusing.

Can someone try to translate this girl text message?

Answer #1

She was just apologizing that you felt that way. She’s saying she appreciates the friendship she has with both you and your wife and she wont do anything to get in the way of your marriage.

I think she’s just being a friend, she’s expressing she enjoys both you and your wife as friends. It sounds like she was just having a good time as friends.

Answer #2

She was simply apologizing for how she made or was making you feel. She likes having you two as just friends, and only sees you as such! She doesnt like you…at least not the way you want, or had hoped.

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