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im older then my girlfriend by two years and it was fine but now im in college and she is still in high school for another 2 years . I love her but I dont want to hurt her because she feels like we are going to get married and I dont really see it. I also feel like im holding here back from the fun of highschool such as prom and stuff because I cant see myself going with here to it. Am I being selfish by staying with her.
It's only a huge deal if he wants to make it one. Going to her dances isn't that big of a deal and if he really loves her he doesn't need to be sure he wants to marry her. But the feelings for her still have to be there and if she wants you to go to her senior prom with her I think it would only be fair for you to go with her.
my gfs a sophy and I'm a senior so soon I'll be in your same situation but I love my girlfriend and shes worth everything I'd rather not break up with her over something small.
If shes saying she wants to marry you at such a young age then shes being abit naive.
You have to keep dropping hints about you being too young (in my opinion anyway to get married. Marriage is sacred and you shouldn't feel pushed in to doing it.
And my boyfreinds 5 years older than me.. call him a perve call him whatever you like I've had it all before bt he loves me and I luv him so I don't care! Aslong as you luv her age shouldnt be a problem ! hope this helped x
The way you are talking in he question sounds like you aren't too sure about the relationship. It's possible to love someone and have that fade over time. She might not be the right person for you. You being out of highschool and her still having 2 years is a huge deal and can cause a lot of problems.
End things with her now. Why are you continuing a relationship in which you KNOW you dont want to marry her. It's only going to be harder the longer you wait. Don't just sit there and drag it out and make things worse.
There is no reason why you should still be with her if you feel like that.
if she dont want you there then fair enough mate but you should go really...are you really ashamed that much...im 18 and my girlfriend is 15...I love her...and she loves me...I aint going to her prom because she dont want me there...soo ure lucky if she wants you to go
Ya'll are both still in highschool though. Whenever you are in college and you SO is in highschool it's a whole different story and situation. You'll see.
I still love her and I might marry here just not anytime soon do you think im being selfish?
