I've decided that I like the appearence of an emo

okay. so heres the thing. im girly. but im tired of it. I want something new. so, I’ve decided that I like the appearence of an emo. and so has my friend. but here are the problems: my mom and my big sister and probably my whole family would kill me if they found out about this. the same problem goes for my friend. the second problem (which only goes for me) is that I am not deppressed (except for now because of this situation) and I dont want people to think im a poser. now, my friend is deppressed. please help us. we dont know what to do when everyone is so judgemental.

Answer #1

wanting to be something your not does make you a poser especially if you dont know nething about it… emo is not all about being depressed so dont make yourself depressed just because your not what people want you to be… being who you are takes courage… thats not gurly to me.

Answer #2

People Suck,,, They judge you nooo matter whattt!

Be yourself, if you are girly oh well. If you are having trouble figuring out who you are.. Try new things like talk to different kinds of people.. join a sports team (football, soccer, track, etc.) Or get into some clubs.. and you will find who you are.. Hope it helps &&& Rember to be yourself..

Answer #3

you’d be called scene if you look emo but aren’t… it’s also a style or fashion… I don’t know what to do about your family.. just one step at a time.. you’re family probably won’t notice to much.. we never noticed my sister started wearing black shirts everyday until she tolds us.. ^_^ so, just gradually change..

Answer #4

well with your parents just say you like black and stuff but cover your rist cuts with stuff like sweat bands and with the judgmental bit just tell them to f off and dont worry bout them forget bout it

Answer #5

Emo is a genre of music, For Christ’s sake. You will be considered a poser because people who think they’re “emo” get pissed about the fact that everyone stareotypes them as being depressed so if you’re going to say things like that you’re going to make them mad, and as far as hiding it from your family uhhh, you can’t. There;s not much you can do. Your parents im assuming are the ones who would have to buy you the clothing that “emos” wear and what not and if they don’t want to then it’s not going to happen unless you know how to talk them into things in which case, we wouldn’t be able to give you ideas on that because we don’t know your parents or the types of tricks that would get them to say “yes.” Wow, that was long…

Answer #6

Examine your heart / life and pick what truly reflects who you are and the first-time impression you want to present to others.

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