My boyfriend has been asking me to dress a little more feminin

Bleh…the girls answering this question bashing the boyfriend for asking her to wear sexy clothing are stupid and naive. Men are very visual creatures. If he did not have feelings for the girl he would have simply left her and picked up the first slutty skank he could find. The simple act of asking shows he wants the relationship to grow.

Even if he is just being shallow, what’s wrong with spicing up the sex life!? Do a poll for American’s and see how many relationships flopped because of a boring sex life. When really, all it would take is a stupid thong, or naughty costume, and instantly would have the animalistic brain of the male fired up again.

This goes both ways. Girls, imagine if your boyfriend wore tiny briefs, bikinis, and thongs, even if designed for men. You would very likely view them with feminine attributes and very likely be turned off by this. Nor would the majority of girls hit on a guy that hadn’t shaved in a few weeks and wore his work clothes out to the bar.

If he’s asking you to dress feminine out on the town he wants to inspire other men to look at you. Thus validating his own manhood and making him feel confident. While many of you might not like that idea…you should probably get used to it. You don’t erase thousands of years of genetic coding over a couple decades of equal rights. As for women, you’d be lying to yourselves if you said you weren’t attracted to the “alpha male”.

Ok really. If a guy only likes your for those things. dump him. it shouldnt matter what you look like it should matter about your personality. That really sucks that he told you that kind of stuff. It really doesnt matter what you look like.I hope you dont change yourself for a guy.

The last two girls are kinda lame, a guy can love you for who you are on the inside and still want you to be sexy. Now I prefer to always dress modestly BUT I prefer to wear the sluttiest underwhere I can find. It also does wonders for my self confidence when I wear such attractive undies. Btw when buying underwhere like thongs and skimpy boy shorts make sure you check the waistband because sometimes they are way to small and create rolls where you don’t have them, like make sure they stretch and stuff. Good luck and have fun.

Underwear is expensive so if he wants you dressing up I think he should flip the bill. You should give him your bra size and ask him to choose something for you that way you’ll know he likes it. You can also go shopping with him and just look around the mall to see what different stores have to offer. There’s nothing wrong with a couple checking out lingerie and underwear together.

I agree with zorbot. When my fieance and I were dating thats what he did. Now I have a bunch of different bras and panties, and he loves them all lol

I agree with zorbot

I agree with hales014. if he really loves you he shouldnt care about what kind of under wear you wear!

why would you like a guy who dosent like you for who you r!

dont change your self just for someone else, but if you still want to buy new stuff, try ann summers, its where my sister goes and her boyf loves it (: hope this helps :D x