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Should I let it go since he cheated on me?

i BROKE UP WiTH MY RECENT BOYFRiEND NOT TOO LONG AGO BECAUSE I FOUND OUT HE HAD BEEN CHEATING FOR 9MONTHS, BUT YET HES STILL TALKING TOO ME AND ITS HARD NOT TOO TALK BACK WHEN YOU LOVE SOME ONE SO MUCH, MY GIRLFRIENDS KEEP TELLING ME TOO LET IT GO BUT IM NOT SHURE IF I SHOULD OR IF I SHOULDNT, CAUSE HE WANTS TOO GET BACK WITH ME BUT I DONT WANT MY HEART BROKEN AGAIN???

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Answer #1

The thing is…even if you do somehow let him back into your life, just think about it. Every time he is an hour late, or has to turn you down for a date because he’s doing something else you’re going to think he’s cheating. It will turn you into a paranoid, jealous b*&%# that you don’t like. Even if he isn’t doing anything you will still be this way. Eventually the relationship will end b/c you just can’t stop questioning him about it. Honestly, don’t get back together. I know you love him and it will really be hard but use your anger! He cheated on you– obviously not loving you while you were so devoted to him. Find a guy who really loves you and respects you, and eventually things willl be ok again.

Answer #2

Cheaters are the worst. Not worth your time. Go find a guy who will be honest and faithful to you. If he cheated on you for 9 months, getting back together with him is just a big invitation for him to cheat again.

Answer #3

He was cheating on you for 9 mos. Doesnt that tell you something? Your whole relationship was nothing but a lie. Lose the Loser! Move on, and wait for Mr. Right!

Answer #4

WELL THATS SOMETHING YOUR GOING TO REALLY SIT AN THINK ABOUT IT, I MEAN YOU GOT TO BE ABSOLUTLY SURE IF YOUR GOING TO SACRIFICE WHAT HE DID, IF YALL SIT DOWN AN TALK ABOUT IT AN GET ITOUT OF YOUR SYSTEM, IF YOUR GOING TO FEEL LIKE HE’S GOING TO DO IT AGAIN THEN MAYBE YALL SHOULD GO YALL SEPERATE WAYS. YES LOVE IS’NT SOMETHING YOUR GOING TO GET OVER NIGHT BUT TIME HEELS ALL WOUNDS,BUT JUST TELL HIM YOU NEED SOMETIME TO THINK AND THEN MAKE YOUR DECISION. YOUR FRIENDS GOING TO AUTOMATICALLY SAY DUMP HIM BUT THEY CANT LIVE YOUR LIFE FOR YOU, THEY CAN ONLY TELL YOU SIMILAR TO WHAT I’M SAYING (LATER).

Answer #5

Let go and save yourself a heartbreak. In my book once a cheater always a cheater.

Answer #6

I agree with angelfire2708.

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