HELP!! I made-out with a guy who has a girlfriend!!

I did something terribly wrong last night. I went to a club with some friends and a guy last night. This guy and I have a past but I thought it was over since he now has an out-of-province girlfriend. That seems to be a problem tho because I got pretty drunk and went home with this guy and stayed the night at his place where we made out several times around his apartment. I didnt realize what I was doing then cause I was still somewhat drunk but realized this morning but he initiated it all by arranging to get together with me and starting to make-out with me

Should I tell someone? If I tell my friends, they will think we are BOTH horrible. If I tell his girlfriend, she will tell everyone and hate me forever. I cant keep this in tho, its KILLING me, I cried all morning

Now he’s ignoring me, what should I do??

Answer #1

thats messed up if you knew he had a girlfriend cause you know you would want to fight a girl if it was you and anyway you shouldnt want to make out with him if he had a girlfriend why would you want to be someone sidekick

Answer #2

I don’t think you did anything bad. You don’t have a boyfriend. You don’t have anybody that you should be loyal to. He’s the one who made the mistake. I wouldn’t tell anybody because it’s personal. I’d just let the guy keep ignoring you, hanging out with an ex is never a good thing.

Answer #3

wow..!! I have this one best friend that I can trust with my life so I tell her EVERYTHING!! and she keeps all my secrets.. so if you have a friend like that that will understand you and talk to you bout it… thats good because if you need someone to talk to even though this is personal that is the kind of friend you shud be telling. but im not sure about telling his girlfriend..?? but just try to move on cause if he isnt answering you maybe that is what he is trying to do.. and maybe he also feels bad about the whole thing.. just move on and in time maybe he will start talking to you again. but if I was you I wudnt keep on talking to him just in case this problem happens again!

Answer #4

Being drunk isnt an excuse for what you did. You knew he had a girlfriend, but you went along with everything anyway. He initiated it, because of your drunkeness, and is ignoring you because hes ashamed of what he did by cheating on his girlfriend. Realize he is scum, and just let it go, otherwise you will have everyone hating you. Next time, if you cant handle yourself when your drunk, then maybe you shouldnt be drinking!

Answer #5

Im going to tell you what I would do…I would not tell his girlfriend or tell your friends. Forget about it, move on, it happened probly because he was missing his girlfriend and you were drunk and those situations turn out like that…its happened to me, Hes probly ignoring you now because he feels bad and just wants to forget about what happened.

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