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I think he's seeing someone else, help?

I have been wit my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years, I have never actually loved any one else. He is 47 & I am 34. He can be so lovin, but yet he can be my worst enemy. when I do go places, or go out & stay out a lil longer than I should have been, he is known to get scissors & tear my clothes, hides my I.d. from me & calls me names & tells me he’s gona leave me. Then he just ignores me for days, he makes me sleep on the couch. He watches t.v. all nite & foregets about me. I feel like t.v. is more important to him than I am. I hate this because I am yearning for his love & effection, but I think maybe he no longer loves me. He never hardly tells me where he’s going. Then when he goes to play horseshoes wit his friends & barbecue wit friends or family, he never invites my children & I. That makes me think that he is seein some one else, but he swears up & down that he will never cheat on me. I cheated on him in the past, I guess that’s why I think he is, or is going to. But I realized that no one is worth losing him over, so it’s gona be a year that I’ve been faithful 2 him. He brings this up a lot, & says he will never forgive me.

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Answer #1

None of this is worth keeping him over.

Love goes both ways, and if he can’t treat you with respect, you need to find someone who will.

Answer #2

first you cheated already , you messed up the realationship, and of course he will take revenge, who wouldn’t? and when you go out and he does stuff that you say, he does it because he doesn’t trust you , he thinks your doing something you shouldn’t supposed to. and the age difference has to do too, And he makes you sleep in the couch treats you bad because he hates you and might love you at the same time, I’m going through the same thing , but the difference is I have never cheated on this bastard , his 10 years older than me, so like I said age has to do a lot. Your man might be very jealous like mine.

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