What should I do about feeling like he doesn't want me?

Well me and this guy are talking in a way . I’m so confused about me and him . So here’s the story . Me and this guy were talking and he was 16 I’m 14 . First he said I was too young and stuff so after weeks of getting to know eachother . I at the same time thought went out with other people while he stayed single . He know I did too . Me & useto like eachother alott .he said I needed to stop playing hard to get so I did . I opened up willing to get myself hurt . So it was month and we had lost contact of eachother . Then we talked again things werent the same we got into a big arguement . I saw him at church on day but he ignored me . Then he the next daay he had a girl . I was so hurt and mad and sad . I think 2 weeks later he text me . I text back and he said sorry about church and that he missed me too . So him and his girl were still together than they finally broke up . We went to different schools . I went to his schools game and he was there . I thought he was trying to get with my friend becus she added him on a social site and he sent her a message trying to get to know her . So she gave him her number and they started talking as friends . Then on firday me and her went to the game . He came up to me with his other friend and we were just talking . At the end up the game we had made out twice . So that was friday but the last time I talked to him was wednesday . When we talk I have to text him first . He texts my friend first but not me . So I have the feeling he might like her . I told him I think he doesnt care about me but he says he does . He says he has a personal problem . Becus he wont open up . I dont know what to do . I feel like I’m chasing him and that he doesnt want me . What should I do about this ? I’ve tried to get over him but I just can’t . Pleasee help!