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Don't want to hurt this guy

I like this guy and he really likes me but there is another guy he is in love with me and he is more like a brother but I dont want to hurt him and say no? what do I do!!

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Answer #1

well, think of it this way.. making him wait for your decision, will prolong his expectation. and once you said NO after a while, it’ll hurt him big time. I mean, life’s hard, so don’t make it harder for the 2 of you. so, talk to him and make it all simple..

Answer #2

well you’ll have to say no, if its not him you wanmt to be with, he might be hurt, but if you say yes to him when you want to be with some one else, you’ll en dup hurting him in the future becasue its not what you want. if ure really close friends he’ll understand and want you to be happy, go for the guy you like, you have to put ure own happiness first x

Answer #3

Well I think that you shoud just be honest with this guy, cause to be honest your just going to hurt him moree by not telling him how you really feel. I’ve been in a situationn like this beforee & it is really hard to tell themm but you will have to in the end so that he can movee on. Just sit and explain to him the way you are feeling & tell him that you just want to be friends & that yous will never be moree than that, if hes a truee friend thenn he will understand that you just dont feel that way for him, ano you dont want to hurt him but you cant make yourself like someone that you dont see in that way. So its best for both of you if you just be completely honest with him (: Goodluckk xx

Answer #4

You hurt him… get it over with… tell him you aren’t interested.

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