Will my cheating boyfriend ever change?

I love my boyfriend and I’ve been with him for a year, i recently found out that a few months back he cheated on me twice once with his ex and once with a new girl he told them he didn’t have a girlfriend. We were going through a tough time as we are both only twenty and we lost a baby, we argued alot because i felt insecure and i was constantly questioning him. He has only ever been around messed up relationships his father is a serial cheat and so are his friends, he said he loves me but he cant take all the pressure he wants to be with me but needs me to calm down. we are back together but i don’t know whether to get out now even though he says he won’t cheat and if he wants to be with sum1 else he will finish it i dnt know if he knows anything other than cheating. what should i do???

Answer #1

He never will stop being with other females. If you want to stay with him you have to accept his nature. Or you have to leave him. Any effort or trusting a future change is falsh.

Answer #2

Do you really want to start this relationship off with him saying to you “if i get tempted and want to cheat ill just leave you!” your going to be stressing out everyday that the next hot piece of ass that comes by that tempts him, he will up and leave you like that for her, thats not love and not a real relationship, if he loves you and truly wants to be with only you he would control himself, but he hasnt been able to in the past, nor will he be able to in the future. As you said you are only 20, you dont need to be dealing with this stress right now, you should be out there, carefree and enjoying life, so my advice would be to save yourself future pain and drama and let him dohis thing, bcos he will hurt you again.

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