He alwasy knows when I am upset.

I was wondering if u could help me I am best friends with this really sweet guy only thing is I don’t know if he likes as more then a best friend. He always knows when I am upset or when i have been crying and he does what ever he can to make me feel better again. What kind of things do guys do when they like you? Him and I race each other once in a while down the parkway and his car is faster then mine but yet he alwasy lets me beat him yes he makes it a challenge but he still lets me beat him he told me he does this because he knows it makes me happy and he wants me to be happy. Him and my mother work togther that is how I know him and my mom told him that he upset me and made me cry withch was not true he got really upset and kept say did i really make u cry and I said know I was up set about something else and some how with out me telling what i was wrong he knew. He did what ever he could to make me happy again witch did not take him long to do he always make me laugh and or happy. I like him a lot he seems to always be there for me when I need him.

thanks from (shortie) that is his nick name for me.

Answer #1

these situations are always difficult, trying to work out if your special friend actually likes you and wants to be with you. But if you push it you may just push him away. Just give it some time, maybe try showing him a lil more attention than usual but nothing drastic thats to obvious. Be a lil more affectionate and see how he responds, if he asks whats going on simply say ‘nothing just felt like a cuddle’ cos friends can do that, give each other cuddles. Or maybe he’ll respond to it by giving you more affection and you can take it from there. its very tricky but if you play your cards right you’ll get your answers without him even realising.

Answer #2

In general, nice guys are looking for meaningful relationships and who better to go out with than a good friend? Don’t worry about the slim chance that he might not feel the same way because if he’s really as nice as you say, he can still a great friend. Most guys aren’t afraid to try a relationship with close friends because it takes the guesswork out of dating. Good luck with you’re man!

Answer #3

Ok, once when he says that he wants to make you happy, just drop a sigh like this “ for that there are other ways, too”.. :))

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