Why is he changing his mind about me?

I really like this guy I met in school. I had a boyfriend while I met him but I still liked him. Then my boyfriend cheated on me and I told the guy that I liked him. He admitted to liking me too, he confides in me, tells me I feel perfect (in a sappy way), told me something bad that happened to him, admitted he was scared and not ready for a relationship but still likes me, called me cause he felt depressed only 2 days after meeting me, asked to be my non-sexual boyfriend, invited me over his house and used to call me before he went out with friends, says he enjoys my company. Then he stopped calling and we share a locker, when I saw him by it, I asked to go get something to eat with him and he said “I have to meet a friend, I’ll call you later” he never did. I don’t pressure him at all, he kissed me the day I broke up with my boyfriend and said “I’m lucky this happened” and “I’ll send your boyfriend a thank you note” and “I was happy being single and then you came along” then he said “I’m not ready, I was burnt by my ex” then he stopped calling. What do I do? He started out really liking me and now he pulled back….

Answer #1

hey that is really gr8 that you found a guy that does that. see i have a bf guy and we never talks to me he says he loves me and i love him i just don’t think it will work out you see we are exs and i broke up with him ya we are bfs but, im not sure if im ready for a reletionship with him again what do you think?

Answer #2

Sounds like he simply changed his mind and doesnt like you that much after all. So i suggest just forgetting about him and loving on becos if you keep asking him why he isnt talking to you you’ll come across and needy and chasing him, so keep your chin up and dont worry so much about him.

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