I need ideas to ask her out and set me apart.

There is a beautiful young lady that I work with, we’ll call her Kadee just for this. As far as I know she’s just about everything I’m looking for in a girlfriend: smart, motivated, sassy enough to keep me on my toes, and maybe top 3 best looking females I’ve ever seen in person. Well the problem is we only have limited contact (when we are scheduled together @ work but even then she’s on the other side of the building). I debated on just walking up to her and asking her out but I thought that was to plain I mean as good as she looks I know she gets a lot of guys trying to get with her so I need to step my game up & distance myself from the pack. I came up with a couple of ideas. Idea #1 There is this song called “Is It Possible” by Raheem DeVaughn that every time I hear it I think of her so I was gonna ask her for a favor. I was ask her to listen to it because there is this wonderful fictional second girl that I wanted to talk to & I wanted her opinion on the song first but after she listened to it I would inform her that the song was about her. Idea #2 I would use the same song but burn the one song to a CD, print the lyrics with my number @ the bottom & put in her apron kinda like a secret admirer type thing.

Those are my ideas & I would like any opinion on those or any other suggestions.

Answer #1

I like #2 but as a girl I’m not too sure if I would call the number not knowing who this person is…. but then again, she may be a lot different and would call in a second…. Have you talk to anyone about her who works with her? Maybe you should find out if she has a boyfriend first before you put all this wonderful thought and effort into it cuz you want it to be perfect…right! you write well…why don’t you write her a string of clues….that would tell her who you are… you could even string this along for a week…everyday drop a clue into her apron it would be fun and exciting for her to try to figure out who this secret admirer is…it will drive her crazy….it would me….make work more fun too. Can’t wait to see whats in my apron today…. I’m just talking out loud and rambling these thoughts….. but a daily note might be more fun…. good luck!

Answer #2

Well I figure a) that’ll give it a lil more mystery to the whole plan which would make her call just 2 find out who it is & b) If I did put my name on it; it would seem like I’m scared 2 do it in person which I’m not

Answer #3

for ur idea # 2 r u goin 2 put ur name on it or sumthin cuz u dont want 2 b anonymus when ur tryin 2 ask out i=a gurl

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