Going "downtown"

I need to know how to convince my wife to let me go down on her. She says that she is uncomfortable with the idea of it, but I believe that once she lets me do it she will find out what she’s been missing. Any advice out there?

Answer #1

What a shame really, to be missing out on such a great and intimate part of sex.

To me, if sex were compared to a meal, then oral sex would be part of the potatoes and salad and vegetables along with the meat (‘scuse the pun). I think it’s normal and not way out, whereas… if you were asking your wife if she wanted to be tied up.. well, that would be more out there like, hmmm, anchovies on a pizza? Oral sex is one of the MOST effective ways to arouse a woman and bring her to orgasm. She is really missing out and so are you!

It sounds to me like she thinks that part of her body is dirty. Upbringing? Any religious or cultural aspects?

Does she like giving you oral? If so, you should be able to convince her to allow you this pleasure. Is she a sexually expressive person in other areas?

Answer #2

I think you should just let it go. Because if you keep bugging her about it, she might just stop getting close to you. I know a lot of girls that are uncomfortable with that, its quite common. Its one of those things you either love or hate. Just respect her feelings about it. There are quite a few reasons why a woman gets uncomfortable with it, a few of my friends think its just gross. Maybe thats how she feels, and unfortunately you cant change that. Wish I could give you a reason why some girls are like that, but… I personally like it so I cant say much.

Answer #3

I’ve jsut found a great article online for you – will funmail it as it’s quite explicit!

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