Girls, what do you like about grinding?

I’m a guy who’s 17. How can I tell if a girl really likes me grinding with them? I get “hard ones” (that I’m sure they can feel) and they always stay with me for quite a while (a few minutes). I just stand behind them, hold on to their waist and move my hands down a bit lower (gradually) while pulling her into me slightly. I follow their hips with mine. Then I just hope that she stays. What do you like about grinding? Am I doing it in a way that a girl would like? Thanks girls :) Hopefully guys will find this helpful because this type of dance sometimes seems like girls just do it to make guys happy. I would like to make the girl happy too :)

Answer #1

I have that same question. Are us dudes suppose to get hard, when we gettin grinded on? Like I never really do, but I want to, so I can see how it feels… And if I can’t get hard during the dance, what could I think about so that I can???

Answer #2

I have that same question, are the boys suppose to get hard, cause at times I don’t, and really want to… to see how it feels…

Answer #3

grinding is a sin and is pratically dry sex

Answer #4

grinding is a sin

Answer #5

Im trying to find out how I can make it fun for a guy.

What I like about it is that im close to the guy (I really like it when it’s the guy I really like) and when he puts his hands on my hips,and thighs and I really like to grind face to face cause I always find more of a connection with him and then I can get even closer and put my arms around him..

Answer #6

I like it when guys grab my hips. also guys- if you don’t actually hold on to the girls hips, it makes it way more difficult for us girls to dance. moving your hands is good too, but if the girl you’re with moves your hands back to her waist, don’t try it again. it’s sexy when a guy get’s hard… like prettygurl up there already said… “it’s a compliment”

Answer #7

hold the girl tight like on her hips or waist I love when guys hold my waist

Answer #8

Well…I like how a guy canmake me feel really hot just by feelin his dick grind against me. holding hips is good and feels good haha I think you know how to. I dont think it takes a lot of skill.

Answer #9

I LOVE it when a guy goes hard on me. Its the best compliment you can make. Make sure you put your hands on the girls waist or lower and pull her as close as you can. The closer the guys groin, the better.Just let the girl do the moving then guys follow. I hate it when guys think they can make all the moves.

Answer #10

make sure you switch it up… kiss their neck and move your hands around don’t just stand there adn rock it gets boring

Answer #11

make sure you switch it up… kiss their neck and move your hands around don’t just stand there adn rock it gets boring

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