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Girls get bored of me?

So here is my problem…

It seems like 90% of girls find me somewhat attractive (cute is the word they often use) when I first meet them. Because of this many flirt with me and I get many of their numbers and whatnot. Anyways, they also seem to find me quite funny also. To many people at school I am kinda known as the funny guy…

What I don’t get is that girls find me attractive and funny (both of which I have heard to be good things), yet if I start going out with one, they loose interest after a few months. This upsets me!

I am beginning to think that maybe it is because I care about them too much and do not try anything on them… (making-out, oral, etc…) in fear that I may make them uncomfortable or may regret it later. Because of this, I have never done anything more than long kisses. Not even making-out. I just turned 17 and it seems like everyone around me is getting some, to be frank…

So, am I too worried about the feelings of the girls I like, or is there something else wrong with me? Thanks for any help!

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Answer #1

being funny and cute is usually a good thing

if a girlfriend gets bored of you because you wont do nything right away then there just not that into you

they should respect how fast you wanna go…

even if you want to do the stuff and just wont…

I hope I helped

Answer #2

You seem like a really sweet guy, but after about 2 weeks or so I think you should ask the girl you’re going out with if its ok if you make out with her or whatever else you want to do. I doubt there’s anything “wrong” with you. She’ll think it’s nice if you ask for her permission first (thats what my boyfriend did). Anyway good luck!

Answer #3

hey bro, I use to have the same problem. I was cute and funny, but too nice. I would always end up as just a friend. so what I did is stoped caring about going to far. I wouldnt care. if they didnt like it, they could stop me. but now im engaged with a beautiful young lady, and happy.

Answer #4

well some girls want a lot more than just kissing. and most dont like to start things. so of course they will think you will never do anything with them and move on. my boyfriend was a lot like you, cute, funny and didnt try anything and it did get a bit boring but honey there is nothing wrong with you! you sound like a very nice guy just keep that up and be more outgoing with girls. and if your not sure whether they will like it ask them first. xx.

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