Girls, do you feel pressure to be a certain way?

I do, and I was wondering how many of you girls (or guys) feel under pressure to be skinny? Or extremly fashionable? Well maintaind?

Answer #1

I always feel pressured. I’m overweight and I’m always very upset about it. I’ve never cared if I was fashionable, I just wear what I love and what’s comfortable. The biggest thing I’ve always hated was being fat. Which I do need to work on that. But you should never feel like you need to dress a certain way. Good hygiene is always a good thing. But it sounds like you worry a lot about this stuff. We all worry about things like this. But just be yourself, I know that’s the best thing to ALWAYS do.

Answer #2

im a straight guy but yea I think girls are more pressured about this because they need to look a certain way or wear something very revealing all for what? girls to act like wh0res? that is some of the problem with the media and with this generation. but I mean I am straight and I like an average girl that doesnt reveal everything and will remain a virgin til marriage. (its ok if she isnt but im going to try and stay one)

Answer #3

umm hell ya. I’ve had thoughts of becoming anorexic because I didnt want 2 lose my “title” of being the skinniest. and actually people on this site kinda pressured me 2 get thinner. they never full out told me 2 be but they were just soo thin.

ummm not extremely fashionable but lately I’ve been wondering about what type of label people wud give me in High school based on what I wear. once I get into HS tho that will all settle down.

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