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How do I get my girlfriend's parents to like me again.

I have been going out with a girl 6 years younger than me. Iam 28years old. Her parents use to be ok with me before they knew we had feelings for each other. When they found out it lead to total disapproval. Her parents even called a private investigator to check up on her to make sure she wasn’t seeing me and even got her x boyfriend to provide them with dirt on me which they threatened me with if I didn’t stay away her. What I am not so sure about is that despite the occasional ‘caught in the act’ scenarios by her sister and husband (who both hate my guts), after one or two weeks later she finds ways to convince them that we never ever went out. Thereafter my girlfriend turns into her sister’s best friend and starts planning her sister’s husband’s birthday party. This reoccurs every time we get caught. Just to add, her sister’s husband was my best friend for more than 10 years. Things just don’t add up. Is this relationship just for the sake of being naughty of having a boyfriend? I am really serious about marrying her. We speak about it like it’s just a stone throw away, but actually miles away and maybe even a fairy tale. Please advise.

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Answer #1

Just be respectful to them and give it time. They’re just looking out for their daughter.

Answer #2

Confront them. Your going to have to take this one by the balls. Let them know that you love their daughter and your only intention is to make her happy. That you will always be there for her for as long as she chooses. Worst case scenario is they hate you (they already hate you so no big loss) Best case is they respect your coming up to the plate and speaking to them like a rational adult. My only question is why does everyone including your decade long friend hate you? what did you do?

Answer #3

respectful to them and visit them often .

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