How do I tell a girl my feelings for her?

I’m choking on words.

Answer #1

Is she beautiful? Tell her. Does she make you smile? Tell her. Tell her how she makes you feel etc..

Answer #2

Ok I will then

Answer #3

Remember , Don`t scare her :O

Answer #4

Just be honest and straight forward about your feelings with her, chances are she has the same feelings for you too. But don’t take too long, I have a friend who played it to cool for too long and now she says “you’re like a brother to me,” and she is dating one of his friends now.

Answer #5

just speak your mind im sure she’ll be smiling like crazyyyy!

Answer #6

Thank for the advice guys but it didn’t turn out for good. (:-|

Answer #7

The best thing to do Is think about exactly what you want to say to her. Once you’ve figured out your “speech” then go up to her (Make sure you’re alone and she is too) and explain to her how you feel, and ask her if maybe she’d want to go out on a date sometime. If she says yes then you can continue on from there. Eventually you’ll get the hang of it and start to feel comfortable communicating with her. But say she says no or rejects you.. you should just say “okay” and walk away. You’ll feel a lot better knowing you’ve got it off your chest and now that you know how she really feels move on. And if she likes you too.. you know what to do.

Answer #8

you might want to drop small litlle hints to see how she reacts to thoes tiny things like for example of shes like i look so ugly in this pitcture u should be like no i think you look pretty or whatever or just give her complements and like after a couple weeks of droping hints you should tell her how you really feel but with confendince but dont make it awkard

Answer #9

you might want to drop small litlle hints to see how she reacts to thoes tiny things like for example of shes like i look so ugly in this pitcture u should be like no i think you look pretty or whatever or just give her complements and like after a couple weeks of droping hints you should tell her how you really feel but with confendince but dont make it awkard

Answer #10

you might want to drop small litlle hints to see how she reacts to thoes tiny things like for example of shes like i look so ugly in this pitcture u should be like no i think you look pretty or whatever or just give her complements and like after a couple weeks of droping hints you should tell her how you really feel but with confendince but dont make it awkard

Answer #11

you might want to drop small litlle hints to see how she reacts to thoes tiny things like for example of shes like i look so ugly in this pitcture u should be like no i think you look pretty or whatever or just give her complements and like after a couple weeks of droping hints you should tell her how you really feel but with confendince but dont make it awkard

Answer #12

If you’re not brave enough to tell her personally, just make some signs/gestures that you have feelings for her.

Answer #13

Write it or call her just be real not too much just let it happen yell her I’d like to go out ur awesome and I love being around u. There simple.

Answer #14

Write it or call her just be real not too much just let it happen yell her I’d like to go out ur awesome and I love being around u. There simple.

Answer #15

I know the feeling yu are having Ryte now… Because I don’t know what to say to someone about how i feel…. So I wish yu luck.. try doing what she ^ said.. message me and let me know how it goes whenever or if yu ever decide tu let her knoe

Answer #16

Look,if you say it directly,and show her direct interest,she will find you creepy or 70% of chance,she will reject you.I can’t explain in a small reply about social dynamics,it’s a diverse field.All I will advice you for now is,if you wanna go direct and place it to her,say it with a relaxed tonality,relaxed and confident body language with confidence flowing in your voice,don’t sweat,flich,fumble etc.Do any on of those and she will disqualify you as someone with low confidence immediately.Say it with a smile.You don’t want to give her a choice whether she wants to accept or reject the proposal,say something like: “I had to come up and tell you,that you look like an interesting person,I couldn’t miss this chance to meet you” If you don’t know her and she doesn’t know her very well.And if you do,say something like “Hey,when are you free? On Sunday? I hope you don’t do one of those boring things other girls stick themselves up with.So,let’s hang out,at _ place at _time.” If you say it with a smile,with the correct body language and tonality of confidence,you will create an alpha zone,and she will see you as an attractive and confident person.When you say “I hope you are not like those other girls”,You are creating what we call an expectation loophole,she wouldn’t want to put herself down on your expectations.And she will try to live up to your expectations and act that way. . Don’t say anything like romantics for example: I love you,I hope we could hang out….I am really interested in you,I ope we can make out someday….I like you,do you like me?…Direct confrontation makes her uneasy and puts the game on what we call the 70/30 balance,where 70 percent of chances will be that she will reject you and 30% of the chances will be that you will make through. . Direct confrontation will make you seem like the same old cheesy dude.Like all the other guys who say they love her all the time.You want to be unique and stand out of the crowd.Not in a cheesy,romantic way.But in a confident,alpha way.


As I said,Social Dynamics is a very diverse field.We have to take care of a thousand things and do a thousand things in order to hook a girl.We don’t have selected targets or a “PARTICULAR DREAMGIRL” Whom we focus on.So,I don’t know whether this small portion will work for you or not,but legitly and by logic,it should get you through.I don’t guarantee it though.

Answer #17

I am sorry bro,I didn’t see that it’s such an old question.Sorry for my foolishness :)

Answer #18

It’s funny how this girl/guy cycle works. About a month ago I only liked this one specific girl. It turned out that we are just best friends (which I don’t mind! O.o) but now I like a few and one in particular kinda acts just like me. I’m sorry I niglect you people’s advice. I got the memo now. Be straight up, but not to make it weird. Show conFedence. Anything wrong with this statement?

Answer #19

Hey bro at this point and time, the answer is answered correctly to the best u can explain it. Thanks.

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