Getting parents to understand sex

Ok I went to go get checked out for a yeast infection. My mom asked if I had sex. I said yes, thinking she would be understanding and maybe even known. I was dead wrong. For the past few days they’ve been freaking out about how there ever going to trust me again. I see there point about being careful about dieses and pregnacy, but they are so disapointed and discusted though they wouldnt care if I was two years older. Im 15 by the way. Well I need help on what to say to them. My dads taking it better than my mom. Any ideas would be fine. Im afraid there going to smuggle me and I can let that happen. I have had plans on moving in with my boyfriend(havent had sex with him yet or anything) in midsemester or next summer. Im not sure please help

Answer #1

tell them the full situation. tell them that you and your current boyfriend have not taken that step yet. tell them that you fully understand why they’re mad.

just understand that they care for you and want you to be safe. they dont want to think of you as an adult in any way, and you having sex kinda is a step in that direction, at least in their eyes.

tell them that your safe that you use condoms and would use birth control but would need their permission. and if you havent used condoms or anything like that, then tell them that you plan to in the future.

just be open with them. they’ll respect that, especially if you tell them that you understand their side and that they have a right to be a little shocked and a little upset.

just dont start a fight with them, or tell them that their mean and horrible for not letting you do what you want. that would only make things a lot worse.

hope I helped, and hope things work out. you can send me a message if you have any other questions :]

Answer #2

It will be hard for your parents to be okay with you having sex at such a young age. You are their daughter, so it is unreal to think of you in that sort of situation. Plus, they love you so they are probally concerned about your choice and the consequences having sex can have on a person’s life.

If you feel you are really ready for that sort of situation, then you have to accept things like any other adult would accept them. Show your parents you are mature enough to be doing such things. You will have to give them time to understand and accept that their little girl is growing up. You should also let them know that you are being safe and taking precautions if you really must have sex. It will not make all the negative thoughts about this they are having go away, but it may help easy the blow.

As far as moving in with your boyfriend at the age of 15, I think this is a very bad idea. You are far too young to even be considering moving in with a boy. You should be enjoying being a child while you can, because you will have plenty of time for all the other things when you get older. You can’t be a child when you are older though.

Answer #3

tell them you regret tellin them and that its fuked up that you cant even go to your own mom for sumthin…tell her you hate it there now and that you never want to talk to her again..shell forgive ya…I did that to my mom.. haha

Answer #4

You wanting to move in with your boyfriend at age 15 is just going to make them think you are even more irresponsible. You just need to show them that you are responsible and that’s not the way to do it unless you just want to make the situation worse. I don’t see why you would move in with your boyfriend at 15-years-old anyways.

Answer #5

they understand it, theyve made that clear, just not at my age I suppose. I think they think im going to sleep around which really isnt the case. they dont really get it that I wanted ti just as much as anybody and I feel more complete as a person since. not that I am more mature by doing it. I just feel more comfortable with my body I supoose is the best way to say it they just dont want me to grow up too fast which is somehting I dont know how to do. which I know is part of being a teenager

Answer #6

parents understand sex…remember they were your age once. Your dad is probably just unsure of how to reactaround you now - I’m sure he is not actually taking it better than your mom.

Just tell them that you are using protection and speak to them about birth control - even though you are not an adult they may take you more seriously and respect you. You shoudl consider waiting to have sex - not for marriage but at least for love - and they’re is a difference - guys respect women more if they have to wait for something or atleast try lol.

Dont move in with your boyfriend - big mistake. The guys I dated at 15- geez I can’t even remember they’re names.

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