getting involved

I just recently had sex for the first time so im not too sure of what I should be doing during it. the guy said I need to do something and not just lay there (he wasnt mean or rude about it). does anyone have any good tips/suggestions that they wont mind sharing? thx.

Answer #1

Its understandable that you didn’t do much your first time, the first time is awkward and what not. There are a few things you can do. If he is on top you can put your hands on his back, feel him, you can grab is ass maybe if you want it in deeper and pull him towards you… you can “let yourself go” as in don’t hold back for noises that may pop out of your mouth, just let your self lose, be confident with yourself like its your 1000th time having sex. Maybe run your hands through his hair, grab the back of his head with one hand and pull it in for a sexy french kiss. You’ll get the hang of it down the road as you feel more comfortable. Down the road you can maybe talk dirty sometimes… like say “I want you to stick your cock in me” etc “Harder (only if you want it harder)”, “oh you feel good inside me” etc.. bla bla some guys like dirty talk some may not. None the less do what feels comfortable to you.

Jason

Answer #2

You can try changing positions, too. Guys really like it when the girl is on top because they enjoy the view of her bouncing over them, plus it’s less work for them, haha. Girls like that position too because then they can control speed and depth. For beginner girls it can be a little intimidating because all of a sudden you have all the control and don’t know what to do with it, but on the other hand, it’s better for beginner girls because this way you can go only as fast/deep as you want, and if something hurts or is uncomfortable, you can shift etc. instead of put up with what the guy decides when he’s on top.

Answer #3

Put up on some sexy boy shorts and sexy bra and then undress in front of him… Damnit runs to find a girlfriend

Answer #4

Was your first time with just a random guy? I mean you referred to him as “the guy”.

Answer #5

no. hes my good friend. so i guess we are fuck buddies.

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