Friends or boyfriend?

So let’s just start this off like this. My boyfriend is 16 and I just turned 14. We’ve been together since 12/12/08. He’s been talking about having sex and about how he wants to do it next time he see’s me which will be 1/10/09. But I told him I’m not ready and he said that’s okay and he wont force his self apon me. A part of me really wants to have sex with him, but the other part of me is keeping me back because I think it’s too soon. I want to atleast wait a while. I love him, a lot. And he loves me. He says the sweetest things all the time.

I’ve told a couple of friends and now they all hate him. They keep telling me to break up with him. And that he’s using me. But they don’t even know him. And my “best friend” keeps telling everyone all these lies about him to make them hate me. I don’t know what to do about it. Does anyone have advice?

Answer #1

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Answer #2

hes using you ! his little dirty mind is thinking, shes young and TIGHT.

and she will be a good fck.

hes not good. move on,

Answer #3

it’s 2 soon…it’s nun wrong wit doing it but give yourselves time to get to know each other…

Answer #4

well, don’t force yourself into to doing things with him even if your just 50% sure you want to do it.

Answer #5

friends are always going to put in there two cents in .. but just do what you think is right, I mean just wait until YOUR ready though,dont but preasure on yourself .

Answer #6

well I think that maybe if your “bestfriend” is trying to make people hate you…that’s not a friend.it may be jealousy.also haven’t you only been dating for a little more than 2 weeks? I think that maybe going a little too fast.yes you can fall in love quickly but if he really loved you he’d wait for as long as it takes because he truley does love you. and actually if he’s giving a date that is pressuring you. not to question your confidence in him but are you sure it isn’t just a fling?guys will say anything and lie to you to get what they want. trust me .. I know my male family members even admit they do this to their women. just..consider all of the possibilites and choose the one with the best outcome for yourself…you’ll know when your ready and in love. if you do pick sex…use protection please..and dont do it at his or your parents house.its disrespectful. also make sure you both keep it to yourself or just only tell someone you trust…u dont need to be called a slut. make your own decession.

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