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Should I start hanging out with my old friend again?

Well a few months ago my best friend met this girl who was new to our school and decided that we should invite her to hang out, I thought it was a great idea and soon we were all going out shopping and staying over at each other places. But in the middle of the summer holidays they started to hang out together, talking about me and when we did go out together they would walk off without me when I was in the changing rooms and I would get in such a state I would just phone them and leave. When we started the new school year they started arranging parties and not inviting me so I decided to just try and ignore them. So I’ve not talked to them for over 3 months I think.

But everytime I see them I just feel like running out of my class, but recently my old friend has been trying to patch things up with me, but I’ve made loads of new friends, my grades are improving and Im getting along better with my parents. So should I accept their apology and slip back into my old anti-social habits but get back my best friend of eight years or just stay how I am just now?

But even if I did make up with her im not sure if things would get better, and I know this sounds horrible but do you think her new friend would back off a bit?

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Answer #1

you can’t go back and she shouldnt have treated you like that. I dont think the apology is worth anything at all. You’ve sensibly moved on and you would agree that you’ve grown, so I think better off for it. What if you get back with her and she does this to you again? Sounds like she’s a bit flighty and doesn’t deserve your loyalty.

Answer #2

thanks guys :D

Answer #3

you can be the better person, and accept her apology, but nobody is saying that you have to be her friend again. you’ve obviously moved on and made much better choices with your life, and you don’t need her bringing you down. clear your conscious of any grudge that may be haunting you and after that you can continue on the path you are on now with no regrets, leaving her sorry a$$ in the dust for good.

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