my guy best friend hates me?! what to do?

I don’t think you hate the guy, I think that you were just really embarrassed and tried to make him feel bad. Telling someone you hate them because they don’t have feelings for you is super childish. You’re in high school now, you need to stop this elementary school drama. Do the right thing. You need to apologize to him for being so mean. Telling someone you hate them is hurtful, especially if he didn’t do anything wrong. Once you apologize, the ball is in his court. If you guys were really “best friends”, a small problem like that shouldn’t have affected it so much.

yea.. thank you. like we were close till I said wat I said. everyone says at skool to like say your sorry others say no. but I am going to. But I don’t know if he will for give me that’s my problem right there? but thanks for your help means a lot (:

yea.. that last sentence you wrote nevered crossed my mind. like I was just mad I didn’t really hate him, I just don’t think before I speak everything just comes out. I want to say sorry cause it been 3months since what I said but the first time I gave up and said ok fine I don’t hate you but I lied and the lie was like killing me and so I said the truth a week later.but I didn’t meant that hate. I want him to be my friend again I want to tell him I am sorry but I am just scared if he will hurt me, I understand what I said was wrong, I am going to say I am sorry but I am just scared if he not going to forgive me or just walk away. I know no matter what I am going to say I am sorry, I just have to accept on what he going to say back or do, but the only thing I am scared is if he ignores me or wont forgive me.?

well, if you guys really were as good friends as you claim, then I’m sure he will forgive you. Just be honest and tell him the truth about how you didn’t think before saying it and that you dont hate him. Things may go fine. Goodluck.

Apologizing is hard because you have to swallow your pride… But it’s totally worth it. And do it in person. If he is still angry about it then you did what you could. He’ll get over it in time but just let him know that you’re over it already.