How to get a friend to like me back?

or does he already like me? so friday night at the game (im a cheerleader) and it was freezing so during our break 3rd quarter i sat by him and he put his arm around me and we were sharing my hot coco and what not. and at homecoming he had a date but the entire time he was with me and everyone thought he was my date like he didnt dance w anyone else and he had his arms around me and what not. i like him but does he like me?

Answer #1

you cant GET someone to like youback. it happens natraully over time, Dont force things :)

Answer #2

I agree with Jess. You can’t physically or emotionally get someone to like you back. It seems that your friend clearly cares about you and shows affection towards you - the hot coco situation. It sounds as if he may have feelings for you or could like you back. I think the best way forward is to simply ask him. Whether it be texting him or saying it to him face to face - it’s always the best option to find out if he likes you or not. Or if you find this too nerve-wracking then you could also just let things develop. You two obviously have a connection, just give it time and let your friendship blossom into something more. If you do ask him and he says yes - then that’s great! If he says he doesn’t like you in that way - don’t be too put down, you can still be good friends with him and there are plenty more awesome guys out there. I hope i’ve helped. Good luck :-) x

Answer #3

You are very intelligent :)

Answer #4

Thankyou. So are you :-) x

Answer #5

Best way is to BE a friend….smile…listen….support when their right…

Answer #6

Be careful. This is a guy who took a date to a homecoming dance and then totally ignored her there, leaving her on her own, while he gave all his attention to and got physical with another girl (you).

Answer #7

Because his date told him.she wasn’t going last minute but ended up showing up anyway…

Answer #8

Because his date told him.she wasn’t going last minute but ended up showing up anyway…

Answer #9

That might make it ok IF she told him she didn’t want to be his date anymore, but you wrote, “at homecoming he had a date.”

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