How can I get him to forget his ex?

I’ve been with someone now for 8 months and although he says he like me loads and wants to “make a go of things”, he just can’t get his ex out of his head. His ex lives in New Zealand on the other side of the world and there is no way they will ever be together, but they meet up once a year or so and my boyfriend says that all the feelings come back to him. He says he wants to love me but can’t get over this ex. They are planning to meet again in August and don’t want me around. It seems that just as he gets really to close to letting go, they manage to meet up again. The ex isn’t even interested in having a relationship with him anymore as it is just unworkable. But I feel like I am stuck in this mess and just get really jealous all the time. He even has photos of them together in the lounge. What should I do?!

Answer #1

Tell him how u feel…

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