Should I put in a tampon before having sex?

me and my boyfriend are about to have sex for the first time and I haven’t been fingered or used a tampon is it possible sex will hurt a lot because I haven’t used a tampon or been fingered? also I was thinking I’ll use a tampon, then let him finger me, then have sex, but I’m not sure what hole to insert the tampon in and im scared it will REALLY hurt! please help!

also on an un-related topic my cousin who is 13 wants to have sex and I told her she shouldn’t… could she hurt herself badly if she does?

PLEASE HELP ON BOTH QUESTIONS! THANK YOU!

Answer #1

If you were born 1/3/1995 when you’re 13 years old. Nice try but I can add, thank you. Both you and your cousin are too young to be having sex just yet. You need to start with the basics. At 13, you should be exploring your own body, not someone elses. It’s part of growing up. Read up on your body. Knowledge is power.

Answer #2

YOUR 12 honestly your still a kid. when you can grow up and learn the sex is something that you value and not something you do at 12 then youcan have it until then go be a kid

Answer #3

Have you even gotten your period??? Dont use a tampon if you havent! And read the directions on the pamphlet thingy that comes with every box of tampons.

You obviously arent even ready to have sex yet… So dont do it! Wait until YOU’RE ready. And the hole youre supposed to put a tampon in is the same hole as the one he’s going to stick his finger in and stick his (you know what) in. If you arent ready to stick a tampon up there, then I dont think you’re ready to have sex. You should seriously wait!!!

And yes, your cousin could probably hurt herself, she’s only 13!!!

Answer #4

Honestly, if you’re too afraid to use a tampon, your ABSOLUTELY NOT ready for sex. Sorry hun.

Answer #5

how old are u

Answer #6

dont even do him.nope.dont because yes you could hurt yourself and sceond off he might leave right after it.sum guys are only after that ya know??

Answer #7

no no im 16!

Answer #8

but you r 13 year old yourself so what are u on about?

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