Why is it that sometimes we fall in love with the wrong person?

There’s this boy who really LOVES me…i mean REALLY. He tells me it all the time, treats me like a princess….he SHOWS that he does and just doesn’t say it…..but i only like him as a friend, he’s cute, funny, caring, and butter sweet but i’m just not feeling it. The heart wants what the heart wants….

on the other hand, i do have a BIG crush on this other guy who barely notices me, we haven’t even spoken to each other (never)….

i don’t get it…. why do we fall for the wrong people?

Answer #1

well because probably thare was something about them that attracted you at first before you got to know them better.

Answer #2

So many reasons….we’re willing to “settle”. We grow up, and away from another person. What we thougth we saw, was just an illusion, and they aren’t what we hoped they’d be. Some go into a relationship thinking they will change the other person (never happens).

If you want to tho, you can say you’ve never fallen in love with the wrong person. That everyone is put into our lives for a reason, even if they are only there a short time. I like that…. :)

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Answer #3

because tht person leads u to the right person not always right away but down the road

Answer #4

like attracts like. I always seem to fall for people that drive me insane because me disfunction attracts disfunction.

I read that in a book called the secret by rhonda buryn

Answer #5

i ask that question to myself everyday i bin thro it alot and u shud let this poor boii noe u dnt want anything with him juz friendship (but in a nice way)and make urself noticable for that guy u like talk to him u will never noe if u dnt try it hun anywayz we fall in love juz becuz our heart lets it we shud be stronger r mind always tells else sumthing different and we dnt do it we follow our hearts instand (im not say u shudnt follow ur heart)but at times u shudnt love is complicate sumtimes but soon r later we will find our mates

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